There are many rishta websites, apps and bureaus in Pakistan. Some are free, some charge for everything, and some are “free to join” but charge when you want to contact someone. This guide gives you a simple checklist to compare any of them fairly, and says plainly how My Rishta Pakistan answers each point. We do not name or criticise other services here. Use the checklist on every site, including ours.
1. What is free, and what is locked?
Many sites let you register for free but then ask you to “upgrade” to see phone numbers, chat or send messages. Before you create a profile, find the pricing or membership page and check:
- Are the prices written on the page, or hidden until after you sign up?
- Can you contact a member without paying?
- Is there a monthly renewal, and how do you cancel?
Our answer: My Rishta Pakistan is free. There is no fee to create a profile, browse proposals or contact members. We explain why in Our Story.
2. How is a profile “verified”?
The word “verified” is used loosely. Look for a page that explains exactly what was checked, by whom, and what is not checked.
Our answer: Our verification badges page explains each badge. A team-checked badge means we checked the member’s identity by hand. A “secure account” badge only means two-step login is on. Most profiles have no badge, and a badge is never a guarantee.
3. What do they say about numbers and rankings?
Be careful with claims such as “No. 1”, “millions of members” or “5 times more success” that come with no source, date or method. A trustworthy site can explain where its numbers come from.
Our answer: We do not publish numbers we cannot prove. We would rather say less and keep it accurate.
4. Are the profiles real and recent?
Look at the listings. Many profiles with no photo, or “last online two years ago”, suggest old or inactive accounts. Ask yourself whether the people you contact will actually reply.
5. How do they protect your privacy?
Read the privacy policy before you upload a photo or a CNIC. Check who can see your contact details, whether you can hide your photo, and how you can delete your data.
Our answer: You can read our Privacy Policy / پرائیویسی پالیسی and delete your data any time on our Delete Your Data page.
6. What do they tell you about scams?
A responsible service warns its members about fraud and gives a clear way to report a profile. Check for a safety page and a “report” button.
Our answer: See our scam warning signs, our safety tips / حفاظتی مشورے and our notice about fake accounts.
7. Is there a real person behind it?
Look for a working email, a postal address and a clear explanation of who runs the service. Be careful with any site that shows only a form.
Our answer: Our About Us / ہمارے بارے میں and Contact / رابطہ pages list how to reach us.
8. How is the site paid for?
Every website has costs. Ask how the service earns money: membership fees, agent commissions, or advertising. Honest sites say so.
Our answer: We keep the service free. Advertising on the site helps cover some of the running costs, as explained in our Privacy Policy.
A quick scorecard
Before you register on any rishta site, ask these eight questions. If you cannot find an answer in two minutes, that is a signal in itself.
- Are prices visible before I sign up?
- Can I contact members without paying?
- Does it explain what “verified” means?
- Are its claims backed by sources?
- Do profiles look recent and real?
- Is there a clear privacy policy and a way to delete my data?
- Does it warn me about scams and let me report a profile?
- Can I find a real contact point?
Whatever site you choose
Never pay a stranger to “guarantee” a rishta, never share an OTP, and meet only with family present. Our guides on finding a rishta online safely and using a free rishta service will help you get started.
This page is general information, not advice about any particular company. My Rishta Pakistan is an independent non-profit and is not connected with any government body or political party.